Being in trouble just because people want to see you in trouble and they want to make you part of something which you don’t even desire to become of??
We all have 1 out of 10 friends, WHO IS NOT ACTUALLY A FRIEND BUT PRETEND TO BE ONE. Who just love to use you for either their own work and happiness or the source of drama they want to create by pulling the trigger over your shoulder. Those are the times when you have to keep patience and keep yourself as stronger as ever.
Don’t worry, I know it’s as hard as moving a mountain but it’s definitely worth it. If you keep this Hadith in your mind, “The world is the farm of the Hereafter”. You can’t loosen your tongue in aggression, its you who would be responsible for your own actions and your opponent would be responsible for his own. You just have to keep your faith stronger as Allah Subhanahu ta’ala only helps those who believe in Him, in His power of being the only one who can take away your pains and guide you being the All-know-er.
Imagine you’ve become friends with a person whose full of wisdom and you think you definitely can learn a lot more than ever and the friend is also considering you in his/her good books but problem hits in and that problem is the new friend’s old enemy, which is also your “the type of” friend who just use you when in need. It is like a triangle you might get to see in the movies, only problem is that, that you and your new friend have no such intentions but the ugly enemy wants to destroy it just to have fun, watching them both suffer. By playing the best cards and manipulating things, what the ugly enemy wants is the destruction between two good people, even though he/she has life of his/her own but the ugliness in the heart just cannot see you happy and by one way or other becomes the source of filth in your lives.
The ugly enemy would tease you, try to break you down and go to the heights you would not have imagined in your wildest dreams but it actually happens. The ugly enemy would turn into a selfish disrespectful moth and try to eat you from your roots. Things go this worse that even after trying not to hate that person you end up hating and realize that you have been played on so well that even your own enemies would not have thought of doing that to you. Just know that the greater the hardship the greater the reward Allah Subhanahu ta’ala blesses you with.
A point will come when you yourself will break down and might think why you? Why Allah Subhanahu ta’ala put you through such decree where you’ve to leave good for bad. Moreover, trust me, once you relax yourself down, pull the bits of you together and realize to what point He Subhanahu ta’ala planned you to reach, you will be like, “So indeed He is the best of the planners and indeed He planned just for what exactly was right for you”.
If Allah loves people, He puts them to trial, He tests them and places them in difficulty. Allah the Exalted states in Surah Baqarah : “We will test you with something of fear, and hunger and loss of wealth, and souls and vegetation. And give glad tidings to those who have patience. Those who if in any difficulty or trial, or tribulation occurs to them or happens to them, they say: ‘Verily We are from Allah and to Allah we return.’ They are those who will receive prayers from their Lord and Mercy and it is those who are guided.”
After all these dramas created in your life, all you need to do is remain at peace. You can’t let the bullet of words reach your heart, especially when you’re being victimized under some falsified statement. Its then you see who your true friends are. Its then you see how much strength you got to take others crap and be quiet. Yes! That is what you do when you chose silence as your option rather than fighting and becoming one of the evil ones. The rude, mocking, talking over and over the situation would only weaker your strength. Answering back or getting aggressive would leave you nowhere but the silence, the faith you put in Allah swt would definitely lead you to the path He has chosen the best, especially for you.
So you should always remember that it is mentioned in Quran, “Verily after pain comes ease.”
Therefore, wisdom is in being the type of person who tries to find the good even out of an evil speech. If someone calls you, let’s say “a whore” or something rather disturbing you might not imagine that they could fall down to that decree of disgustingly cheap attitude, your reply shouldn’t be “same to you”, it should rather be “May Allah Subhanahu ta’ala guide you and protect you from evil speech and evil path you’ve chosen to walk on”.
See when you make dua in return for the person whose trying to let you down, just that very moment; you achieve the state of stability at heart. I surely know it’s hard to be so polite and gentle when the other ones forgotten their limits or their parents bringing up but you should keep it in your mind that you’re not one of the ignorant ones. You had been chosen by Allah Subhanahu taala to be part of this test, just to polish your faith in Him Subhanau ta’ala because our Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) says; “Verily, sabr is to faith what the head is to the body. The body perishes without the head, and so also when sabr goes faith also disappears”
And Wallahi, the day you would realize the deepest logic behind all that what you’ve been through, all that what you’re going through and all that what you might go through (Allah forbids). That day, you will definitely, fall down to your knees, prostrate Him Subhanahu ta’ala with tears of thankfulness flowing down your eyes and you’ll see the sincerity He has put into your heart . The positivity you will feel would beautify your inner self and you will fall in love with Him Subhanahu ta’ala more and more. ❤
Keen Wayfarer 